Kid beats up parents because apartment is small

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Hey, at least he didn't tear up the apartment because his parents are small.
 
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I guarantee this isn't the first generation to have spoiled kids who assault parents. You would have never heard about it 25 years ago because no internet.

Smart money says this dude is mentally ill.
 
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n_huffhines said:
I guarantee this isn't the first generation to have spoiled kids who assault parents. You would have never heard about it 25 years ago because no internet.

Smart money says this dude is mentally ill.
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Without a doubt .... definite head case
 
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n_huffhines said:
IDK what your experience was, but some of the worst kids I knew got hit by their parents.
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I was given the belt.... the switches and etc. and because of this I've never spanked my kids.

Not only did the spankings .... if you want to call them that .... lead me to react more physically to confrontations as a kid and young adult.... they didn't really prevent me from doing something I knew was wrong. I'd basically weigh the likelihood of getting caught and the subsequent whipping versus what I was going to do.
 
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Carl Pickens said:
I was given the belt.... the switches and etc. and because of this I've never spanked my kids.

Not only did the spankings .... if you want to call them that .... lead me to react more physically to confrontations as a kid and young adult.... they didn't really prevent me from doing something I knew was wrong. I'd basically weigh the likelihood of getting caught and the subsequent whipping versus what I was going to do.
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Every kid copes with it differently and some flat out can't cope with getting hit and they will resent you for it. From my perspective, I thought grounding was a worse punishment anyway, so it just seems like the no-brainer way to go.
 
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n_huffhines said:
IDK what your experience was, but some of the worst kids I knew got hit by their parents.
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I was talking about the old school moms. As Carl said I got the belt or had to pick out my own switch and knew not to bring a wimpy one back. This was in the 70s. You try that now you would be in jail.
 
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Orange_Vol1321 said:
I was talking about the old school moms. As Carl said I got the belt or had to pick out my own switch and knew not to bring a wimpy one back. This was in the 70s. You try that now you would be in jail.
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And this is the truth.... protective services would be called nowadays. Looking back I'm not so sure some of the whippings I received weren't abuse.
 
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Orange_Vol1321 said:
I was talking about the old school moms. As Carl said I got the belt or had to pick out my own switch and knew not to bring a wimpy one back. This was in the 70s. You try that now you would be in jail.
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I brought back a small one,just once though

mamaw made sure of that :)

I still remember my last spanking by my mom,used a shoe on me,I just stood there looking at her

then she started crying saying my baby's grown up

made me feel bad lol

there is nothing wrong with a spanking,a lot of kids could use one these days
 
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Carl Pickens said:
I was given the belt.... the switches and etc. and because of this I've never spanked my kids.

Not only did the spankings .... if you want to call them that .... lead me to react more physically to confrontations as a kid and young adult.... they didn't really prevent me from doing something I knew was wrong. I'd basically weigh the likelihood of getting caught and the subsequent whipping versus what I was going to do.
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I'm the same way. My mom would use a fly swat or a belt. Didn't really stop me from doing anything just made me work harder at hiding my tracks.

My dad, who was a Nam vet and a cop, only whipped me one time (that I can remember) after I was caught stealing trading cards from a Hills Department Store. It was one lash and I could tell he didn't want to do it. Any other time he needed to disincline me he would basically explain why I was in trouble and how disappointed he was. That affected me way more than my mom going bezerk and whipping me.

There is really nothing that backs up spankings as a effective form of discipline. Prisons are full of people that got spanked as a kid.
 
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I'll never understand how a parent can hurt their child "out of love." It just doesn't add up.
One time my brother (then roughly 16 now 41) called my words she says she'd never heard before. My mom grabbed a tire iron that was laying around and chased him. He ran about 10 feet into the bathroom and locked the door and she hit the door with it once, putting a hole in the door that almost broke through the other side of the door, then promptly broke down sobbing. It scared her more than anything ever in her life.
 
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