45k in household income for a family of 3 isn't really what I grew up considering middle class to be. After the basics you are to be left with 1k per month for gas, health insurance, life insurance, clothes, sundries and food. Screw savings etc.
Me and a friend of mine from about 10 years old would pull weeds, and bust and carry coal for people in our "holler". We'd get like a couple of dollars to pull weeds, and 50 cents a bucket for coal. It was hard work, but gave us a good work ethic. My dad always raised a big garden, and I'd have to watch other kids play on my basketball goal until I was done working the garden every day. I hated it then, but glad now. He'd always give me a few dollars a week for doing it, and he didn't have to do that.I came up the same way. Started cutting grass in my neighborhood at 11 or 12. Was 1 of 3 kids back then, on very meager budget...my parents would say "yall have 40 dollars each for school shoes this year, if you want something better then get to work." I remember getting a pair of Bo Jacksons for 120 bucks after tax, i had to cut a bunch of grass to make up that 80 dollars. You can bet i took damn good care of my shoes though when i had to sweat for them. My kids have no idea...i try to tell them but they still dont get it. Ordering pizza was a treat in our house as kids...happened less than once a month, eating out maybe couple times a year. I had to eat like an animal and barely taste it or i would only get 2 pieces because my big brother ate like a stinking dog and would eat my rightful share...my kids eat fast food anytime we are out and cant cook, pizza etc frequently...they dont appreciate it because its always been that way. They will say thanks sometimes, but they simply dont understand how good they have it.
I was in a family of 5 that grew up on equivalent income for the time and we considered ourselves middle class. Both parents worked and as soon as we could (12 for me) we got a jobs to pay for things we wanted
How do you know they 'needed' to go to work? And why is being handed an allowance a better thing?You considered yourselves middle class. I don't consider kids needing jobs at 12 apparently in lieu of allowance is middle class. I would think for a family of three to be middle class, it would be 60-160 depending upon where you live, of course.
How do you know they 'needed' to go to work? And why is being handed an allowance a better thing?
Oh stupid me, it instills liberal 'values' at an early age.
You considered yourselves middle class. I don't consider kids needing jobs at 12 apparently in lieu of allowance is middle class. I would think for a family of three to be middle class, it would be 60-160 depending upon where you live, of course.
Nice of you to assume allowance means handed. It never has in my house. I worked for mine and my daughter works for hers. My personal opinion is that kid's job should be school. I am in position where I can pay an allowance based upon work done for me. I want my daughter to appreciate the value of money, but she doesn't need to be worrying about working a shift at McDonalds to pay for her insurance v. studying for a test. Or attending play practice. Be a kid. Enjoy it.
I understand what you are saying. We weren't the wealthiest where we lived, but were better off than many others. We knew we weren't rich, but knew we were okay.We had all the necessities and took a vacation once a year. No allowance but I earned enough to by a motorcycle (which I used to expand my paper route capabilities and income) and then a car when I turned 16. We lived in a middle class neighborhood in Knoxville.
We certainly weren't lower class and I don't see why we wouldn't be considered middle class.
You assume that working means you miss being a kid.Nice of you to assume allowance means handed. It never has in my house. I worked for mine and my daughter works for hers. My personal opinion is that kid's job should be school. I am in position where I can pay an allowance based upon work done for me. I want my daughter to appreciate the value of money, but she doesn't need to be worrying about working a shift at McDonalds to pay for her insurance v. studying for a test. Or attending play practice. Be a kid. Enjoy it.
Majority democrats.The stock market has recovered well. A China trade deal would likely push it even higher.
But today car loan delinquencies are at record levels.
https://www.cnn.com/2019/02/13/business/delinquent-car-loans/index.html
The article explains that there are more car loans now than before, so that explains some of it. On the other hand, that is in part because banks are lending again to higher risk customers. We have seen that movie before!
So is the economy good, bad, ugly? I think it is mostly just uneven. The middle and the top are doing better. The top of the top, in particular, is benefiting enormously. The lower middle class and the poor, however, continue to take a beating it seems.
I understand what you are saying. We weren't the wealthiest where we lived, but were better off than many others. We knew we weren't rich, but knew we were okay.
You assume that working means you miss being a kid.
You assume that working means you miss being a kid.
I worked around the house, but never got an allowance until I was about 14. and it was crap, told my parents to keep it when my neighbors paid me more in one afternoon than my parents gave me for the whole month.Nice of you to assume allowance means handed. It never has in my house. I worked for mine and my daughter works for hers. My personal opinion is that kid's job should be school. I am in position where I can pay an allowance based upon work done for me. I want my daughter to appreciate the value of money, but she doesn't need to be worrying about working a shift at McDonalds to pay for her insurance v. studying for a test. Or attending play practice. Be a kid. Enjoy it.
It doesn't mean you miss out on being a kid. Definitely different strokes for different folks.
Volinbham - Not saying that 45k for a family of three makes you low class, but I think of middle class as not having to struggle. I also think after hearing your story that 45k means a world of difference depending upon your location. 45k in Nashville is tougher than 45k in Knoxville
I worked around the house, but never got an allowance until I was about 14. and it was crap, told my parents to keep it when my neighbors paid me more in one afternoon than my parents gave me for the whole month.
chores are part of life, when you are on your own no one pays you to do laundry, clean, cook, cut grass etc etc. thats just part of living. I agree with what others said, it sucked at the time but now I am thankful. seeing that I could get far more from others than what I could from family made me realize I wanted a job so I could provide for myself, instead of relying on my parents.
doing chores never interfered with the schooling or anything else.
I worked around the house, but never got an allowance until I was about 14. and it was crap, told my parents to keep it when my neighbors paid me more in one afternoon than my parents gave me for the whole month.
chores are part of life, when you are on your own no one pays you to do laundry, clean, cook, cut grass etc etc. thats just part of living. I agree with what others said, it sucked at the time but now I am thankful. seeing that I could get far more from others than what I could from family made me realize I wanted a job so I could provide for myself, instead of relying on my parents.
doing chores never interfered with the schooling or anything else.
You considered yourselves middle class. I don't consider kids needing jobs at 12 apparently in lieu of allowance is middle class. I would think for a family of three to be middle class, it would be 60-160 depending upon where you live, of course.