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RDU VOL#14

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Who said something that made them seem they were “perfect”? I guess I missed the comments that the OP has taken offense to, because I don’t see anything posted out of line. The OP ask for advice and help and when he gets this advice and help, he gets offended about it. I know that when I have had issues in my life in the past, the biggest problem has been self awareness of that issue and it’s always good to have someone from the outside tell you what they see.........especially if you ask for it.
I didn’t get offended by anyone’s advice. I don’t really get offended. Not my style. I didn’t really care for a certain not quite accusation, but a general overview of who I am as a whole. I apparently have painted a picture that was interpreted the way that some people see. I didn’t care for something in particular (I still don’t) and at the same time I’m not on here looking for praise either. So I’m not on here throwing a hissy fit, I’m certainly not above criticism. Far damn from it. However, there are certain things that I will disagree with, not because I think they are wrong, but because I know that they are. That’s not denial, that’s just a fact when questioning my devotion towards my wife not some of my actions.
 
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BearCat204

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I didn’t get offended by anyone’s advice. I don’t really get offended. Not my style. I didn’t really care for a certain not quite accusation, but a general overview of who I am as a whole. I apparently have painted a picture that was interpreted the way that some people see. I didn’t care for something in particular (I still don’t) and at the same time I’m not on here looking for praise either. So I’m not on here throwing a hissy fit, I’m certainly not above criticism. Far damn from it. However, there are certain things that I will disagree with, not because I think they are wrong, but because I know that they are. That’s not denial, that’s just a fact when questioning my devotion towards my wife not some of my actions.
Hope it works out for you
 
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peaygolf

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RDU...just saw this thread. Seemed all too familiar to me. I get it.

Thinking and praying for you. AA completely changed , and continues to change my life for the better. Not everyone forgave me and I lost some people I was close to because I couldn't change the past. I forgave myself.....finally...and actually worked the steps they way they are laid out. Hope and faith my friend. I promise it works!
 
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RDU VOL#14

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I thought that i would never touch this thread again. I think I was possibly kind of crazy when I started this back in November. Well, here goes my current state of the RDU family. We have reconciled and keep moving forward everyday together. Christmas apart was very difficult, but we managed it. We’re setting goals for one another and haven’t given up on our life together. It’s been harder than I could probably ever imagine, but conquering my personal issues back in late Summer were going to kill us as a man and wife and me physically.

So in the mean time, I’ve done a lot with a lot of help from individuals to get back to being me. I’ve undergone an evaluation process that determines whether I’m physically, mentally and all of the above capable to have a liver transplant. That was quite the scary 3 day ringer. It was determined that I would have to maintain sobriety for 6 months ( which I am kicking ass with ) and meet with some head shrinkers at Duke to be given the full go ahead to be on the liver transplant list. Unfortunately, it was discovered that on top of my liver being destroyed, we would go ahead and sprinkle in some cancerous legions on there as well. Waiting to hear how they will treat that situation. Sounds like radiation most likely. So We’ve moved on past the point where I might need a new liver to the point where I do need a new liver probably in the not so distant future. I’m starting to deteriorate at a slow pace physically, its very subtle, but I can tell. Some of those things the Doctors told me to lookout for are starting to show their ugly head, but I’m managing that as well. I’m also getting help from all the right places and people. There is still so much to be done positively in life and I am confident we can do that and be happy.

Mrs. Rdu Vol is taking great care of me and I am eternally grateful for that. I am also grateful for the kind and encouraging words that you all provided when I started this thread. Definitely out of my comfort zone. My acceptance of this situation now to where it was, is completely different. I just thought I’d say hello, and I wanted to acknowledge how much it meant to me when i started posting about my crazy life.

Thank You,

RDU VOL#14
 

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