we have already crossed that bridge. Went and laid in bed with him and had the drug talk. I told him that he wouldnt get in trouble for anything we discussed during the conversation. He said he had heard rumors of the drug stuff but hadnt seen it. I feel comfortable that he was being truthful I have found that the best way to handle things like this is to just do it and be upfront about it. After all, that is part of our responsibility as grown ups and parents. It might be uncomfortable talking about certain things, but if we can plant a seed, it makes it all worth it.