I don't really claim to be an insider, but I do have several high profile friends. I received an email about 20 minutes ago. I will not post it; if it got back to this individual, he wouldn't appreciate it. But I can confirm this:
Jon Gruden contacted Vic Grider on Tuesday. He left him a voice mail that told Vic "don't believe anything you are hearing, the deal is still in play, and [he] wanted to let Grider know and make sure he was still interested in joining the staff as a HS liason (or something of that nature."
He also went on to state in the email that the staff Gruden is assembling one be "the most unbelievable in CFB history." TIFWIW. I'm sure Y4B, OV or someone else may be able to confirm this. #Gruden!