If y'all truly believe that nonsense, good on you. Call it what you will, but in my experience as it pertains to parenting: I think people are in a rush to slap a label on anything to make themselves feel justified, or vindicated.
I also think there aren't enough good parents in this World. Even fewer great parents.
Cannot recall who it was on here that adopted, and has fostered some kids. Now, that is an alpha, to me. Fully giving of yourself, for betterment of others.
People, can be good people and not be exactly like us. Think love, and empathy as displayed by Christ is something people forget all too often. If you want to discuss an alpha, then there it is.
Being a parent, I cannot imagine a scenario where i'm not present, or involved, or an example to my children. You can, slap whatever label you need on it. But, I dont give a flying turd. It's my choice to be a force in my kid's lives. And frankly, its an honor to be able to do so. A blessing.
Guess this just kinda struck a nerve. Sorry not sorry for the rant.
I truly mean this. To all those who work hard, are good and decent people, who try to do the right things. Be encouraged and know you're doing things right way.

The World needs more of you, and will be a better place because of you.