your last goes to Russia as well. as always you just ignore the other half of the equation.
Ukraine, Georgia, Moldova, Kazakhstan; Russia has used direct military force in all of those nations within my life time, ignoring what the USSR did. given how they treated Chechnya, and the ever ongoing issues in Siberia and around Mongolia, they aren't even kind to their own people. then you can look at their own censorship, state owned whatevers, killing of political enemies.
if anything your complaints about the US are because we are too similar to Russia. we should be doing everything we can to separate ourselves from Russia, not get closer with them.
I never brought up the communists, that is just you jousting with windmills again. The Russians themselves have never been friendly. there is no reason to be even decent with them.
what is demonstrably different between Russia and Ukraine where we should be decent to Russia, but not Ukraine? our decentness towards a country should match how much they align with us. and before you think that means we are evil, please point out any nation that is friendly or even decent to a nation they don't align with?