No, surprisingly her parents have nothing to do with it.
Short story: Wife tells me Thursday that dear daughter is throwing a baby shower at the house Sunday. I tell her ok but I’m watching the game on Friday and getting out on the lake Saturday then Sunday I’m getting things ready for our trip, washing the camper, boat ext. So yesterday it’s “I need you to do“ and I said nope, watching the game so she was pissed. Today I say let’s go and she says we have to do x for the shower I said nope, see ya. Get home and dear daughter hasn’t shown up to so crap, wife is working her ass off and I tell her I told you so.