Emma used to jump on top of me in the wee hours. After headbutting me a bit, she'd cruise over to lay down beside my wife. Then, the headbutting ceased. She'd land atop me and immediate move to be beside my wife. Now, if she visits, it's around dawn. She'll jump onto the foot of the bed and snuggle up to my wife.
Our other cat, Cookie always goes straight to Cat Mom. I am unmolested. If my wife is gone for a couple of days, Cookie will snuggle with me (I'll just have to do). Otherwise, she yowls at me for foodstuffs. That's about it.