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Back story here, I remember when my son was 5 and signed up for little league basketball, went to practice one time, then caught pneumonia and was in hospital for a bit. Of course, had to give up the basketball. At the end of season, he was invited to the party for them. I took him, and the coach told me that they had a trophy for him also. I said no, wouldnt teach him what being competitive is all about. As a mother, it was hard to see him being there and not getting one. I explained it to him after the party. Maybe in hind sight, shouldnt have taken him to begin with, but that young man to this date, fights and works hard for what he wants. Proud mother here.
Back story here, I remember when my son was 5 and signed up for little league basketball, went to practice one time, then caught pneumonia and was in hospital for a bit. Of course, had to give up the basketball. At the end of season, he was invited to the party for them. I took him, and the coach told me that they had a trophy for him also. I said no, wouldnt teach him what being competitive is all about. As a mother, it was hard to see him being there and not getting one. I explained it to him after the party. Maybe in hind sight, shouldnt have taken him to begin with, but that young man to this date, fights and works hard for what he wants. Proud mother here.
Back story here, I remember when my son was 5 and signed up for little league basketball, went to practice one time, then caught pneumonia and was in hospital for a bit. Of course, had to give up the basketball. At the end of season, he was invited to the party for them. I took him, and the coach told me that they had a trophy for him also. I said no, wouldnt teach him what being competitive is all about. As a mother, it was hard to see him being there and not getting one. I explained it to him after the party. Maybe in hind sight, shouldnt have taken him to begin with, but that young man to this date, fights and works hard for what he wants. Proud mother here.
NCAA baseball and basketball is 64 teams. Same should be for football, then you'd have interesting and quality post season play.
It's a funny topic to debate. Reading through the responses, you get the clear impression that folks have fairly strong positions one way or the other. But you also get the impression that everyone's kind of yawning as they explain their perspective.
Not many topics can so thoroughly divide folks into two camps, and at the same time engender so much apparent weariness.![]()
That's a good story, but I hate to tell you, your son learned his work ethic from what YOU do/did, not what he got or didn't get. You could've just as easily let him have the trophy and had the same talk, asked if he thought he earned it, why or why not, etc. IT'S NOT THE TROPHY THAT MATTERS!!! it's teaching our children what "earning" means and how if feels when you do it!
BTW: Seriously thanks for raising a good son and a responsible taxpayer, we need alot more of them!
So do you not think players that get injured and can't play don't deserve any rings, trophies, etc.?
It's a funny topic to debate. Reading through the responses, you get the clear impression that folks have fairly strong positions one way or the other. But you also get the impression that everyone's kind of yawning as they explain their perspective.
Not many topics can so thoroughly divide folks into two camps, and at the same time engender so much apparent weariness.![]()
I guess I don't understand. If the bowls are worthless, don't watch them. They pay the conference $$.
It's participation money and no one wants that trash. Oh, except for the players who have committed their life to the sport and may have never had the opportunity to do trips like that. But who cares about them when we can brag about teaching our 5yo how to be an adult?
He was 5. It had no impact on their adult life