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I didn't find Wiggins' comments to be dumb in the least, though she should not have made the comment about the percentage of gay women in the WNBA. That was unnecessary. But more generally, she didn't like the culture in the WNBA. That was her experience, that is her opinion. Who are you to say that her opinion of the WNBA is wrong?
I think you answered your own question. 98%! Dumb!
Im not a touchy feely snowflake type but I was more offended by the arrogance/tone deafness/stupidity of her comments more than anything.
Shes just lucky shes not a guy or the media backlash would have been much worse.
I am sure that number is not 98% but I am also sure it is more than 50%. Who really gives a ****. That is a Title 9 type league that should have never happened and that is just my humble opinion.
No. She corrected you're assertion that Wiggin's "statement" was dumb. Wiggins made several "statements" that were quoted in that original piece. Those "statements" took courage to say, and certainly were not going to endear her to WNBA or media types. I can see no gain for her whatsoever outside the fact that she is relieved to expose the discrimination that she allegedly experienced.
And if your trying to boil all of it down to the "98%" comment. It is obvious that she was using hyperbole and not acting as some sort of literal scientific pollster.
Her clear and obvious point was that "as a heterosexual minority in the WNBA, she experienced significant bullying and abuse because she was not part of the lesbian majority". Nothing "dumb" about it. Dumb is when people attempt to distort the truth by splitting legalistic hairs concerning something insignificant.
Baylor deserves whatever opprobrium they receive for their misogynist treatment of the whole sexual assault situation. At the best, their approach was ham-handed, secretive, and stupid; at worst, they helped create and promote a rape culture.
For the coach of the women's basketball team to use THAT public a forum to speak to the issue, unbidden, shows an amazing lack of awareness and self-control. To further encourage fans to "punch people in the face if they bring it up" takes it to a whole 'nother level.
At any business, any employee that did something like that in a public forum, representing the company to the public, would be at least punished, and probably fired the next morning. Any AD worth his/her salt or paycheck would do likewise with such a coach.
But this is college athletics, where the tail wags the dog so hard that I'm sure nothing will be done. And female students (and male, for that matter) who are thinking about reporting sexual assault will get the message loud and clear, and once again keep it to themselves.
So, when someone blows a whistle on a hostile culture (if true), almost inevitably others, such as retired players, will come out and report that they had had some similar experiences. On the contrary, WNBA players at large has denied that a bullying culture exist. Most recently the very straight Breanna Stewart, has come out to say that she has seen nothing like this. Even Tara V. is defending the league:
Tara VanDerveer defends WNBA from Candice Wigginsâ allegations - SFGate
But perhaps, the entire lesbo-bullying culture of the WNBA directed all its collective wrath to Wiggins because she was just so, so fine? Okay, if anyone wants to believe that, more power to them I suppose.
The counter argument is that CW had a very, very abrasive personality and as result, she probably did make enemies and receive some hostile treatment. That is an unfortunate situation but it is easier to say "those lesbians are out to get me," than to look in the mirror and say maybe I have been asking for some of this through my own hostile, diva-like actions. Wiggins has backtracked from her 98%, saying that it is how "it felt to her". I think that is true but your feelings don't always correspond to objective realities on multiple fronts. If I punch you in the nose and you hit back, I am not being bullied....
Mulkey said she did not intend for the remarks to mean that the victims should "move on."
"Not only do I sympathize with victims, I am angry about the way victims were treated at this university," Mulkey said. "It is horrible, horrible anytime someone does not take care of a victim. Even one sexual assault is too many. Nobody is dismissing what happened here. I want us to get to the bottom of it. I'm a woman, and I recruit women to come her. "I will never, ever support anybody at this university that dismisses what happens to victims or who doesn't help victims.