dating married women

superdave1984 · 07-16-2008, 11:28 AM

I had a conversation recently about this topic so I thought I would get some other input on it. I have a friend that almost exclusively dates married women. He claims it is the best way to go since they aren't looking for a "relationship" and you don't have to buy them gifts and such. That they just want someone to spend some time with, give them some attention, and some good sex. No strings, just the fun.
I have a different opinion and have made it a rule to never date married women. I make exceptions for ones that are separated, going through divorce, etc. But married women are off limits. Being friends is fine, lunch or whatever, but nothing more. Although I have been tempted to change my philosophy, I never go through with it. Even though she may be very unhappy in her marriage, I still have much respect for the marriage itself.
What say the rest of you?

utvolpj · 07-16-2008, 11:31 AM

sounds like a good way to get yourself shot and have the shooter get off with community service. Not saying I'm an angel but you can only tell the dealer "hit me" so many times before he takes your chips

WAY-J · 07-16-2008, 11:32 AM

Its one of the 10 no nos God specifically gave us.

Vercingetorix · 07-16-2008, 11:33 AM

I say your friend is looking to get himself shot.

allvol123 · 07-16-2008, 11:33 AM

To steal a line from Tombstone, "you are an oak" superdave1984.

Jaytrain5 · 07-16-2008, 11:35 AM

It seems like a question of character to me...I'd say your friend has none.

droski · 07-16-2008, 11:36 AM

i don't date women who are banging someone else. . . just call me a romantic.

tnvolsfan85 · 07-16-2008, 11:36 AM

I know of someone whose wife was cheating on them and he came home 1 day to find her in bed with another guy and as that guy was running out of the house her husband shot him in the back. Needless to say her husband got off for shooting the guy!!!

kev20 · 07-16-2008, 11:44 AM

kev20 · 07-16-2008, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by tnvolsfan85

I know of someone whose wife was cheating on them and he came home 1 day to find her in bed with another guy and as that guy was running out of the house her husband shot him in the back. Needless to say her husband got off...

Before her?

tnvolsfan85 · 07-16-2008, 11:48 AM

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Originally Posted by kev20

Before her?

Yeah...he shot the guy first. He didn't shot his wife.

kev20 · 07-16-2008, 11:50 AM

Jaytrain5 · 07-16-2008, 11:51 AM

It's ok, Kev. I got it.

**vols kick balls** · 07-16-2008, 11:52 AM

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Originally Posted by kev20

Before her?

I don't think tnvolsfan85 got it. I did. Good one.

KB5252 · 07-16-2008, 11:52 AM

This is a true story about a friend of mine from 4 or 5 years ago. He was at a married woman's house having sex when her husband came home early. His clothes were in the living room and he did not have time to get them and get out so he went out the back door buck naked. He ran across the back yard and into the neighbors fenced in patio to get out of sight and there in a swimming pool were three kids on summer vacation. They all went screaming into the house to tell their mother who saw this friend of mine running around the back of her house, up the street to his car. This woman got his license plate number and called to police. He was pulled over by a cop about 5 minutes later and arrested. He was charged with indecent exposure to a child and convicted and to this day he is on the sex offenders list. It was bad enough he was arrested naked on the side of a major highway in Nashville, now he has to live with his picture next to Chester the child molesters picture the rest of his life. Just something to think about!