VolMax
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OK brothers and sisters, too many folks winding up on the Marriage thread with bad news. It may seem sappy but here goes an attempt to help avoid it. I have made and seen a lot of supportive comments to fellow VolNation folks on the Marriage thread. Let's see if we can help before things go completely off the rails.
I'm a year and a half out of a 19 year marriage and into the new wild world of dating. I've got lots of hindsight from the first and am learning a lot about the second.
My big picture perspective is for a relationship to work, both parties have to gain happiness from making the other happy. Sounds silly, but if it's one sided, the giver's tank will ultimately run dry and things will go south.
Think about it, if I respect, appreciate and enjoy making my significant other happy, and she does the same for me, what can go wrong?
Ladies, please join in! I know there are times I just don't get it and could use a female perspective to some of my questions.
This may wind up a major fail, but it can't be any worse than my Dooley support tracking thread.
What could be better than a happy relationship and us back to winning on Saturdays?
GBO!
I'm a year and a half out of a 19 year marriage and into the new wild world of dating. I've got lots of hindsight from the first and am learning a lot about the second.
My big picture perspective is for a relationship to work, both parties have to gain happiness from making the other happy. Sounds silly, but if it's one sided, the giver's tank will ultimately run dry and things will go south.
Think about it, if I respect, appreciate and enjoy making my significant other happy, and she does the same for me, what can go wrong?
Ladies, please join in! I know there are times I just don't get it and could use a female perspective to some of my questions.
This may wind up a major fail, but it can't be any worse than my Dooley support tracking thread.
What could be better than a happy relationship and us back to winning on Saturdays?
GBO!