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04-25-2012, 03:23 PM
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Originally Posted by joevol24  So, I live in Cali, told my brother and sister I wanted to come back home after a bad breakup with a girl I love. One sent money for drive. This was Sunday. She begged me to stay once she found out and we have been mostly great since. I wanna come home, but I don't wanna lose her. Her dad is in bad health, so she can't come and me leaving burns too many bridges to come back. What would you do? | My sis lives in Claremont by the way.
She (g/f) obviously is under stress with the health of her dad. Hopefully you have been supporing her and did not break up because of your selfish needs. That said, I would leave for a while and rethink everything through. My wife and I broke up twice and three adult children later still married. So a breakup and a break aren't a end all. Now if she cheated on you, you are a fool to even be asking this.
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04-25-2012, 05:24 PM
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| | Volmeister extraordinaire
| Was the breakup due to your pickle being somewhere it wasn't supposed to be? | 
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04-25-2012, 06:21 PM
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| | This We'll Defend
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Originally Posted by volinbham Take the money and head to Vegas. Parlay that cash into a small fortune. Spend the money on hookers and blow then hit your siblings up for more cash. | Best option IMO | |
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04-25-2012, 07:35 PM
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| If you're in love with each other and you have a pretty good relationship most of the time, stay with her. If it's a rocky relationship, it's probably best to break it off. | |
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04-25-2012, 08:20 PM
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| | Leon Sandcastle, MVP
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| Does she work? Do you support her? If the answer combo is no-yes, then GTFO, Also, if she throws the dad situation in your face, then GTFO. How many chances have you given her? Whats her deal?
There are way too many unknown factors to make any sort of educated decision.
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04-25-2012, 09:13 PM
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| | May 9, 2014 :)
| Don't listen to the guy above, he took months to gtfo of something he knew he should have | |
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04-25-2012, 09:27 PM
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Originally Posted by volwindy Don't listen to the guy above, he took months to gtfo of something he knew he should have | Sounds like you're still bitter.  | |
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04-25-2012, 09:30 PM
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#23 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by IBlvNTmWrk Sounds like you're still bitter. | Just showing him I was right, Like always | |
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04-25-2012, 09:34 PM
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| | support me
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| Put it in her one last time and leave./thread
also volinbham's advice was good too. | |
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04-25-2012, 10:21 PM
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| The fact your asking this, tells me that if you do leave, it is something you will question yourself about for the rest of your life. On the other hand, if you broke up because you caught her cheating or she wants to date other people, different answer. | |
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04-26-2012, 07:34 AM
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Originally Posted by IBlvNTmWrk Sounds like you're still bitter. | This. | |
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04-27-2012, 03:18 PM
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Originally Posted by volinbham Take the money and head to Vegas. Parlay that cash into a small fortune. Spend the money on hookers and blow then hit your siblings up for more cash. | My immediate thought also. | |
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04-27-2012, 04:46 PM
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#28 (permalink)
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| Misleading thread title...there is no mention of pickles, cucumbers, or anything of the like in this thread | |
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05-01-2012, 08:34 PM
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| To update, I left California yesterday and will be home tomorrow night, and I think it is the right move no matter how much it pains me to do it. | |
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05-01-2012, 08:39 PM
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| I'm sure it's not easy on you. But if you felt that was the best thing for you to do, then it's the best thing for her too.
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